Life with 3

....has been busy!  In the words of the great Dr. Seuss from his inspirational book "Hop on Pop"...

PLAY
DAY
We Play All Day

FIGHT
NIGHT
We Fight All Night.

Ok, ok...we don't fight all night, but we do play all day...and come nap time (my usual blogging hour) I am exhausted and in need of a break...well, usually a nap.  I find that my days go better with the kids when I have activities planned so we aren't just sitting around making huge messes, picking up messes,  fighting and getting stressed.  SOOOO...we've had a lot of fun baking and making crafts .  We've made several dozens cookies, made crafts like snowman bags (to put the cookies in for our friends/neighbors), candy cane crafts, painting Christmas ornaments and soon we'll be decorating little stockings (tomorrow maybe?)

We had a  VERY BUSY day yesterday.  We had 10 little people over here...all under 4 (well, one 4 year old) to decorate cookies and do crafts with us.  It was actually a lot of fun.  I don't know why I'm always asking people over with little kids.  Really, children are not my gift.  It has been a great area of learning for me to not get stressed over messes that other people's kids make, scratches that appear on our floor once they are gone, spit up my couch and poop in my trash cans.  BUT....I'm getting there!  I love my friends, and I like their kids...but it's hard for me...I'd rather have a house full of middle schoolers rather than pre-schoolers...weird I know!  But, that's not the stage of life we are in right now, so I am learning to love other people's kids AND their snotty noses and stinky diapers (thankfully the moms are usually here to deal with the last two:-)  I want my girls to remember our house being full of friends.  I want them to learn hospitality...and especially to learn that things don't have to be perfect for you to be hospitable.  Sometimes the best way to practice hospitality is to invite someone over despite the mess in the house or the dust on the bookshelves and NOT apologize for it:-)  Ahhh...I digress....maybe another day.  SO...fun fun fun yesterday.  But, I *thought* our camera was at Grammy and Gramps house, so I didn't take any pictures (I found it this morning in my purse! OYE!)  However, two of my friends took pictures...hopefully they'll send some over this way so I can share. 

My excuse for not blogging is that I'm tired when my "break" comes.  Jeremy has been so gracious to me...helping me in the evenings and even encouraging me to rest at nap times...because...we NEVER know what the night will be like.  MOST nights are great. Nathan wakes up, eats, goes back to sleep...usually twice (last night it was three times).  HOWEVER....there are those *other* nights.  You know the ones...when little sweet angel face baby is up ALL NIGHT LONG!  That would be the "We Fight All Night" from above.  Those nights do happen (last Sunday)....so I try to rest during the day, just in case that's what's in store for me later.  Hence, my lack of blogging.

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My New cleaning supplies

I bought myself a new broom/dust pan, a sponge mop, and a wood floor duster thingy today.  First of all...the broom is GREAT!  My other broom was 6 years old...I figured it was fine, still had the bristles, what's so fancy about a new broom?  Seriously...I wish I would have bought a new one a LONG TIME AGO!  I really like it.  I realized this afternoon that I've just been pushing dust and particles around my house rather than actually sweeping them up!

My mop....is quite possibly....Broken!  Jeremy doesn't like it when I talk badly about myself...but, I seriously must be quite dense.  I can not, for the life of me, figure out how to get the mop head back on.  This is why I usually just get on my hands and knees and use a sponge.  But, I thought I'd try something "easier".  Hmgh...I'll have to wait for dear hubby to get home and help me, unfortunately my soapy water will no longer be hot:-(

Speaking of cleaning supplies....I bought them today at Target....yes, I ventured there, all by myself with three little ones in tow (ok...one in my handy dandy moby wrap (I'm getting it Teri!)).

AND NOW FOR THE STORY....

I had a cart full of stuff, had just finished checking out. Hannah was sitting in the cart seat, Nicole was walking beside me, and Nathan was waking up and crying in the carrier (my moby wrap).  I was trying to hold Nicole's hand, my purse and push the cart with one hand.  We were going out the doors and hit a bump.  My broom, and mop both went a tumbling to the ground.  There were two men walking about behind me, and a lady behind them.  So...here I am, with  (at this point) a screaming baby, an obedient 3 year old who would not let go of my hand, a concerned 19 month old who was yelling "uh oh" and pointing to the floor, and  a mop and broom on the ground.

What do these every so kind and sweet men do?

Stop
Let out a frustrated breathe of air
Step to the side
And
help Walk around me!

Never once offering or even consider stopping to help me pick up my things that fell to the ground.

Thank you kind gentlemen for your concern.  I greatly appreciated it.  It was the perfect opportunity to teach my pre-schooler that we should "do unto others as we would have them do unto you" and explain that it would have been really nice for you to stop.  However, since you didn't, we embarked upon a learning experience to look for others who may need a hand and help them out in the future. 

Oh yeah, the lady just walked around us too (and they had a tight fit to get around a large shopping cart, a lady with a baby strapped to her front and a little girl who has no idea what "personal space is")

And that my friends is why I'm going to go "rest" now:-) 

I'll try to get some pictures up again soon!

2 weeks and 5 days

Seriously...I feel like Nathan has been part of our family for FAR LONGER than 2 weeks and 5 days.  I have to remind myself daily that he is still so new!  Today we went to visit my midwife and he got a weight check.  He is now 10 lbs 8 oz!!!  That little boy has gained a pound and a half already!   He's grown out of newborn clothes (for the most part) and was only in newborn diapers for a couple of days.  Unbelievable! 

The girls simply adore him.  I caught Nicole just standing, looking at him today, with a smile on her face.  Hannah is always kissing him, bringing him things, and asking to hold him.

I think he'll be well taken care of.  I will choose not to comment on his sleeping.  Last time I did, I jinxed myself and had a bad several days.  Let's just say we are rested, for the most part and I'm not complaining.  Again...he's not even 3 weeks old!

Meeting his great-grandfather for the first time.

Nathan in my Moby wrap at the Christmas parade the other night.  He was just starting to wake up and I think he forgot he was all safe and snug...he sort of freaked out, haha.

Here are some random pictures of the girls that I thought were cute.

I don't know why, but I'm a sucker for messy braids and a serious look.  I LOVE it!

Check this one out, she doesn't Always look like a pirate when she smiles:-)

BUMing around

So....I'm getting low on my disposable diapers and feeling bummed that Nathan is just not quite big enough to be in the cloth diapers fully time.  There are two reasons for this...#1, he's still just a little to small, needs to "fatten up" a bit, and #2...my diapers are pretty stretched out from being used on two toddlers, one of whome (to remain anonymous of course) is a bit of a chunk! haha.  So...I'm afraid that once Nathan is big enough for the cloth diapers, that they won't fit him well because the elastic is stretched (anyone know how to fix elastic?)

Sooo....I've been dreading the time when I run out of disposables and have to buy some.  But, I think I've found an alternative, and I'm psyched about it!  You see, there are these little diapers called "g diapers".  They are a cross between disposable and cloth diapers.  They are cloth on the outside, but come with an insert that you deposit in the potty and they basically break down.  I've never considered g diapers because they are extremely expsive because you have to keep buying these little inserts.  These diapers are for people who are trying to help the environment, which is honestly not my main goal in cloth diapering.  I want to help our wallet, you know...save money.  Anyway....the other day at Target, I found an opened box of g diapers, for weight of 8-14 pounds.  I decided to check them out and got a GRANDE idea!  You see, like I said, they are cloth on the outside.  Then there is a little (non)plastic liner that those disposable inserts lay in.  Well...they are exactly the right size for my cloth, washable inserts that come with my bumgenius diapers.  So...I decided to try something....

I bought the box (on clearance) for $6 (less than a pack of diapers) and I got two cloth diapers, with 3 (non)plastic liners and 10 of those disposable insert things.  I've been laying my cloth inserts into the liners and using them just like I would use my cloth diapers.  So far, it's working!  I'm psyched, because this will be a nice alternative for us until he can fit full time into my real diapers.  This will cut WAY back on the number of disposables I'll need to use.  I really like cloth diapering because I think it's a good way for our family to save money.

Isn't he cute with this little diaper on?

The little g on the back is cute too.  I love how these are SO NOT bulky!

 Here is the g diaper with my cloth insert in it.

Oh....on the same note...I found something cool out.  Remember those cloth diapers I found at Good will a few months ago and bought for a dollar a piece.  Well...they didn't work so well for us.  I didn't like the brand and the size was to big.  Well, the place I buy my diapers from, Cotton Babies, buys back gently used diapers.  I sent in those 8 diapers and got a $62 credit at their store.  This was enough for me to buy a few more BumGenius diapers, the ones I like, and a new wet back, which I Needed (I had to pay a few bucks extra).  So....anyway, I was pretty excited about this nice little kick back.  They are also a Christian owned company that offers cloth diaper scholarships to missionaries abroad who have children or work with children.  Pretty cool if you ask me.  So...that's my cloth diaper news of the month.  Anyone still reading? hehehe.

Random pictures

I have a few random pictures I'd like to share.

We went to a winterfest this weekend.  They offered sleigh rides on the ice rink (I believe it was a quarter of the rink, a bit dinky!), visits with Santa, free bounce house and other fun activities.  There was also "snow".  Do you see it?  It's in the background of this picture.  It was all of 2 feet high and 3 feet across.  The poor Florida children were throwing "snow balls" at each other.  Pretty silly.   Anyway....I thought this was a cute picture of Nicole.

Sunday we laid the girls down for their nap.  I put them down at 1:00 and went to do something for just under 10 minutes.  Then, I decided to go check on them...and this is what I found.  Hannah got out of bed, but didn't make it past the door.  She is laying on a (dirty) floor mat.  Poor girl...she was so pooped out she couldn't even make it to the living room! hahaha.

Jeremy came home psyched up for his softball game last night with eye black on.  Immediately Hannah wanted some.  Then, we talked Nicole into it.  So...daddy and his girls, wearing eye black.  Aren't they cool???

Daddy/Daughter date to....

Home Depot...where else?

Jeremy has been looking forward to taking Nicole to the kids workshop that Home Depot hosts the first Saturday of each month.  He has been talking it up all week to her and I believe it was even better than he hoped.  The two of them met their buddies, Bryan and Peyton, for a morning of building fun. 

Nicole & Peyton

Nicole was given an orange Home Depot apron and materials to make a wagon, with the help of her daddy.  The kids are also given a pin to put on their aprons.  Jeremy said there were some kids with their aprons full of pins....I'm quite certain he wants Nicole (and later Hannah and Nathan) to have their apron full of pins:-)

She even sat on Santa's lap for the first time (she just learned about who Santa was yesterday.  We don't really talk about him, but there's no hiding her from it, so she might as well have an idea of who he is and why she sees him everywhere right now).  Jeremy said he heard the other kids asking for iPods, iPhones, Batman caves(???) and other various items.  I don't think Nicole asked for anything... I don't think she knew to, haha. 

I loved how excited these two were to spend the morning together.  Hannah was a bit upset she wasn't invited, but she's just not big enough yet (although we all know she *thinks* she is).  I look forward to hearing about many other fun times these kids have with their daddy...all by themselves.  It's so important, and so special.  I'm thankful my children have a father who love them and treasure them so much. 

Nate

Have you been missing him?

The girls have been enjoying LOTS of play time with daddy.

50 Free Christmas photo cards

OK...I feel like I need to share this with you.  You can get 50 photo Christmas cards for FREE...just pay $3.19 for shipping.  My favorite deal blog...It's Hip2Save has the info.  Click here and read how to do it. 

No need to pay a ton for personalized Christmas cards.  I'm psyched because there were a bunch of free deals a few weeks ago, but I wanted to wait until we had a picture with Nathan in it.  Now I have them coming...woohoo!

A great money saving blog

I just feel the need to pass this blog along.  Some of you have asked me where I find out about codes to use online, and coupons to print and great deals to help with Christmas shopping.  My primary source is from Hip2Save.  This blog is maintained by a really cool stay at home mom, whose husband is in the military.  She posts a ton throughout the day.  Sometimes the posts are good for me, other times I just pass them by.  But....I just found out that I can download a new Christmas song for free from Amazon every day until Christmas.  So...I just got Joy to the World by Casting Crowns for free...I can't wait to see what I can download tomorrow.

Also...a couple of weeks ago, I found out about a coupon code to save $15 off a purchase of $15 or more at a certain store online.  I was able to purchase a Christmas present for someone ( to remain anonymous) for $2.99 because of this code...and I got free shipping.  All information courtesy of Hip2Save.  I just felt like I needed to pass this info on to you, in case you want to save too.

Christmas Decorations...Part 1

Yesterday we took the family out Christmas tree shopping.  Nicole and Hannah both had fun running in between trees in the Home Depot parking lot.  *side note* One year, I want to go to a REAL Christmas tree farm, pick out my tree and chop it down....you think that'll ever happen?

(see Nicole with her fingers in her ears?  The chainsaw was "too loud")

Because of time constraints and bedtime meltdowns, we only got to put the lights up on the tree...which is why this is part 1. 

Some *exciting* things that happened along the way...
~Nathan was force-fed his first chocolate chip cookie...courtesy of a very sweet 18 month old sister who doesn't understand why he can't eat it yet.  At least she was sharing.
~ Hannah Loves the multi-colored Christmas lights....so much so that she thinks they should be eaten.  Yeah...she was "eating" the lights and made half the strand go out.  Luckily no one was hurt and Jeremy was able to fix it.  Oye...this girl:-)

~Nicole was incredibly concerned that the Christmas tree would fall off the van and kept telling Jeremy to "drive slower".
~The girls made lots of people laugh while trying on silly Santa hats and letting out excited giggles over all the decorations at Home Depot.

~Nathan got attention of his own as he was ever so snuggly cradled in my moby wrap.  I'm tempted to lie about his age, because I know people think I'm crazy to be out of the house with a newborn.

Sharing

I have a mish mash of pictures to share, so I can't come up with a good title.

First, let me say that we are all doing really well.  The girls have really taken a liking to Nathan.  Nicole asks daily if she can hold him and we pray for him every night, along with our other huge list of people:-)  Hannah is very concerned when she hears Nathan crying.  She even got to hold him the other day.

He looks terrified in this picture, hahaha...but, really, I think he enjoyed his sister's loving:-)

Here is our little turkey on thanksgiving.

Wednesday one of my dearest friends, Elisa stopped by and we got to introduce our Nate's to each other.  Her little boy was born in June and his name is Nathan too.  Her daughter, Addie, is 2 weeks older than Nicole.  Elisa and I have been friends forever...ok, well, since early high school.  It was fun to see her for a few minutes.  AND...my Nate was wearing the outfit HER Nate wore home from the hospital.  She beat me in birth weight though.  Elisa's Nathan was close to 10.5 lbs!!!!!  Woohoo...go mama!

Silly Hannah

This girl LOVES shoes!  Any size, any shape, any style.  I promise she will steal your shoes if you come over.  She's so funny!

Last but not least...Nicole was styling in her flamingo glasses (those are for you Aunt Julie).  Hannah loves shoes, Nicole loves sunglasses. 

I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving.  We are having a great cool snap and enjoying being together.  Thankful for a happy healthy family.